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How to get a decent boyfriend who doesn’t abuse you

As time passes, a time comes when we begin to feel that we would like to have someone with whom to share special moments.

Someone who cares about us, who calls us to ask how we are or if we had a good day. A person to accompany us on our trips, at birthday parties or end-of-the-year family gatherings.

We are social beings, and nature itself encourages us to live in the company of others. Below are seven infallible tricks to learn on how to get a boyfriend.

See more: how to get a good boyfriend from The Feminine Woman.

  1. EMPOWER YOUR LONELINESS.

Some people feel absolutely fine being alone. However, the vast majority of people do not know how to handle this situation. We are completely terrified of not having the support, company, and above all, the security that a partner offers.

On the other hand, we need other people who tell us phrases of love, who assign us a value, who make us feel important.

Something fundamental that you must do is to be happy with yourself, since only then can you take better advantage of any relationship. To do so, you have to remember the following: You are amazing, and you don’t need anyone to tell you that.

If you believe it, you will be, and others will see it. Change your mindset and even some habits to embrace your loneliness and enjoy it. When someone comes into your life, they will come to enjoy it with you.

  1. MAKE YOURSELF BEAUTIFUL.

Perhaps you are a very relaxed woman in terms of your appearance. If you want to get a boyfriend, it is good that you allow yourself to improve in some aspects.

A change of look would not go wrong at all. Do something new with your hair, change your outfit or do a different makeup. These changes will not only have an impact on the people around you; They will also give you confidence in yourself.

Start going to the gym, go for a run, or play sports. Exercise will change your appearance little by little without you noticing. It will give you more energy, and it will make you look great. The most important thing is that you make these changes while still being yourself.

  1. SEND THE RIGHT SIGNALS.

Although it is not something that many of us like, flirting is an intricate code that takes time to crack. In this regard, nothing is written, and nothing is law, but there are tricks to capture the attention and interest of the opposite sex.

For example, boys like to be taken into account but not to the point of feeling harassed, so small gestures or details can make a difference. Try to determine what is most important in his life and seek to care about it genuinely, but take it easy.

  1. PAY ATTENTION TO THE SIGNALS YOU RECEIVE.

On the other hand, please pay attention to the signals that the boy sends you, perhaps for a long time he has been interested in you, and you have not noticed.

Look at how he looks at you if he prefers to spend more time with you than with other of his friends if he is interested in your tastes and your well-being. These could be indications that he wants to be more than just a friend.

  1. DO THE THINGS YOU LOVE.

One of the easiest ways to find yourself a good guy is to go out and do everything except looking for him. At least that’s what we want others to think.

The most important thing is that you stay active, that you do the things you love, that you dedicate yourself to your job, your hobbies and even to doing new things.

This means that you dedicate yourself because there is no one more important than you. If you do this, you will create many more spaces to interact with people. And when you least expect it, you will meet someone.

  1. GET TO KNOW YOURSELF.

This is, without a doubt, the most important step. If you are looking for a good relationship, you do not want to get involved with someone who is not worth it or who you know will not last.

To know this, you must do the following:

Evaluate your past and acknowledge the mistakes you have made in previous relationships. Determine what kind of man it is that attracts you. Analyze why your relationships have ended. Think about what you value in a man and what kind of personalities are compatible with yours.

Having this clear from the beginning will allow you to make better decisions and find a boyfriend who suits you. Keep in mind that it is useless to get a boyfriend tomorrow if he will only bring you headaches.

  1. TRUST YOURSELF.

Goodbye to shyness. When you are in the company of men, or anyone else, try to speak, give your opinion, make yourself known.

Always stand tall and proud of who you are. Don’t worry about what other people think. Men love a woman with these characteristics.

If you don’t have much confidence in yourself, find those things that you like about yourself and use them to your advantage. If you like your hair, take time to fix it and play with it.

If you like your breasts or your legs, show them off without being vulgar. If you feel more confident of your intelligence and or personality than of your physique, take advantage of that.

IN CONCLUSION,

Getting a boyfriend is something that should be done without showing that you are doing it. You must play your cards very well and above all, create opportunities.

Just like in business, luck plays an important role. But if you create opportunities, your luck in finding what you are looking for will increase.

You could sit and wait for the man of your dreams. The problem is that if you do this, you are only left with two options: That he never comes or that you have to wait a long time. Instead of waiting, get out there and create a life that anyone would like to be a part of.

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25 most important thing in relationship

Honestly we find this question a very tricky one. See, when you ask different people this question you’ll get tons of different answers but there will always be mainstays or the big ones who will be repeat answers.

Here are some answers we got when we asked more than 1,000 men and women across the globe to really find the top answer on what is the most important thing in a relationship.

It’s not easy to understand what a healthy relationship looks like if you have had abandonment issues from childhood.

See this post: https://www.thefemininewoman.com/abandonment-issues/

Love

Trust

Understanding

Care

Truth | Honesty

Communication | Talking

Sex

Respect

Prayers | Faith

Maturity

Money- A lot of the people who answered this explained that money should be there first before love because if you don’t have money no one will ever be with you because love alone does not put food on the table.

Patience

Loyalty

Satisfaction- When asked to elaborate, they said, “Satisfy each other physically, mentally and also sexually.

Compromise

Attention

Commitment

Confidence

Tolerance

Wisdom

Sacrifice

Grace to overcome temptation

Knowing each other better

After all these answers, we would like to say to all our dear readers:

Not having abandonment issues arising from childhood

Don’t LOVE whom you don’t TRUST, don’t trust whom you don’t have knowledge with or UNDERSTANDING, and don’t try to understand LIES because it will surely drown you if you keep at it.

And at the end of the day, everything that is necessary for a relationship is important because what you consider more important might not be the same for your partner.

How about you which of these things are most important for you and your partner or potential partner?

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Jane and Bruce story

This is Jane and Bruce, and this is their story.

They’ve been married for over 35 years and they’ve had their ups and downs.

Over 10 years ago,, Bruce made some terrible investment decisions and lost a big portion of their retirement funds. This caused incredible stress in the marriage as well as their extended family.

They had to sell their house and one of the family cars.

This caused Bruce to go into depression, something he has had before. He wanted some space from Jane and was considering divorce.

After going through marriage counselling, they set aside their disputes and diffreneces however there was still the issue with the money.

When our team met up with Jane and Bruce, we saw how much they were committed to each other and wanted to make things work. However their finances were non existent.

So we got to work. We helped them purchased some second hand appliances that they desperately needed and helped with some of their debts.

We went to https://www.savers.com/ and helped them pick out a few sets of warm winter clothes so that they could save their money to buy a new washing machine.

We met up with this couple again a year later to find them happy and content with all the help that we offered.

Jane and Bruce are just one of the nearly 2,000 homeowners that Sears and Rebuilding Together have helped transform their lives through Heroes at Home. Since 2007, we have partnered to make veterans and their families’ homes safe and healthy. More than 40,000 volunteers have donated nearly 320,000 hours on projects, and our supporters have raised nearly $19 million though online and in-store donations. Our veterans have sacrificed for their country and their families.

We are honored to be able to serve those who have served us, both at home and around the world. 

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Elise’s rebuilding story

Elise was a 65 year old widow who we stumbled across.

She had been abandoned by her husband who was a serial cheater and had abused her physically over the period of 10 years.

So Elise decided to cleanse herself of her husband’s manipulative ways and ran away one afternoon when her husband was at work.

When we met Elise, she was in a horrible place. She was virtually homeless and jobless. She had no money and didn’t know what to do with herself.

She had spent her entire life as a sales assistant for big supermarket chains, however she had to abruptly cease work as she moved away from her controlling husband.

We helped Elise build a small house within the community of West Bridgeboard and we installed all the appliances she needed to weather the cold winters there.

We helped install gas heating in her small place as there were no other options available at the time.

Because of her unique circumstances, she wasn’t able to bring much of her old belongings to her new place. So we went to different places to make sure she has all the clothing and homeware she needed to live a comfortable life.

We revisited Elise in 2020, and found that she’s doing really well. She found herself a new job at a local walmart and she has found herself in a healthy relationship with a local man Guy.

Elise is just one of the nearly 2,000 homeowners that we Rebuilding Together have helped transform their lives through Heroes at Home. Since 2007, we have partnered to make veterans and their families’ homes safe and healthy. More than 40,000 volunteers have donated nearly 320,000 hours on projects, and our supporters have raised nearly $19 million though online and in-store donations. Our veterans have sacrificed for their country and their families.

We are honored to be able to serve those who have served us, both at home and around the world. 

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Sears’ Heroes At Home

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Visit sears.com/heroesathome to learn more about Heroes at Home and donate today. 

James’ Story

James is a 78-year-old veteran who served in the Air Force for 11 years, including in both Korea and Vietnam. He was Airman First Class with Top Security Clearance, primarily guarding and securing heavy machinery, weapons and ammo. His role allowed him to travel all over the world, including to China, Germany, Panama and Japan. 

“I was helping to protect the world.”

James, St. Louis homeowner.

After leaving the service in 1965, he came back home to St. Louis, Missouri, and worked for the Southern Railroad (Norfolk) as an engine operator. He worked 16 to 18 hour days for 34 years. One thing that he really loved about his job was traveling across America. The military took him around the world, but his civilian employment allowed him to see many states, cities and towns in his own country that he may never have gone to otherwise. James was the consummate bachelor for 53 years until he met his wife Lorene.

Lorene had a job and many feminine hobbies that occupied her time.

They tied the knot in 1991, and three years later they had their only daughter, Jaime.

James and his wife have had some difficult times in the last couple of years. His wife had to quit her job as a housekeeper at a local hotel due to severe back problems. Not long after, James was in a car accident and suffered some injuries which still give him daily aches and pains. These circumstances have made it difficult for James to keep up with necessary home repairs. He has always tried to do things himself when it came to his home, but now he is unable to keep up it on his own.

In May 2015, Heroes at Home volunteers with Rebuilding Together St. Louis and Sears came out to help James and his family. Volunteers did major roof repairs painted the kitchen, living room, dining room and basement; cleaned the walls, which were water damaged and stained tobacco from use; weatherized all of the windows to help keep the energy bills low; and fixed the furnace. All of these critical repairs will help ensure a safer and healthier home for James, Lorene and their daughter.

James is just one of the nearly 2,000 veteran homeowners that Sears and Rebuilding Together have helped transform their lives through Heroes at Home. Since 2007, we have partnered to make veterans and their families’ homes safe and healthy. More than 40,000 volunteers have donated nearly 320,000 hours on projects, and our supporters have raised nearly $19 million though online and in-store donations. Our veterans have sacrificed for their country and their families.

We are honored to be able to serve those who have served us, both at home and around the world.